The most vital lesson I have learned is the importance of our impressions. Our mental attitude and our physical appearance determine our destiny with ourselves and people around us. I now know beyond any hesitation that the biggest conflict we have to deal with is canceling people’s assumptions about us and winning them over. Here are 8 easy habits you can follow to instantly claim attraction and get the spot light you deserve.
1. Connect with People
People appreciate good listeners because it’s a way to feed their own ego and it makes them feel more worthy. So listen attentively and carefully and avoid interrupting the speaker in the middle of a sentence. Most importantly, avoid talking incessantly about yourself in improper situations.
2. Put Your Friendship First
True friends will always hold your back no matter the circumstances you’re facing. Obviously, there are several standards and aspects between friends which differ from one person to another. This is what makes friendship valuable. So as long as you’re walking through life with true friends, don’t forget to make your friendship a priority.
3. Live in the Present Moment
Being present in the moment is a fact we can’t escape. We’re neither able to return to the past nor to travel the mysterious future. The present moment is all we have in our hands. I know the past might control our current actions, but what is left in the past is in the past. Carry the valuable lessons you’ve learnt, but try not to bring the past troubles into the now. Same with the future, make plans, but still enjoy the moment.
4. Engage in Life and Activities
Exercise daily and engage in several activities that will gratify your needs. Meet new people and master new skills. Be open to embrace yourself in the world. Be a part of life. These will keep your body healthy and empower you to be more confident in your skin.
5. Learn about Your Worth
This is a very important lesson one can’t live successfully without. By defining your self-worth, you value yourself as a living human being. Adding meaning to your life is key to comfort and confidence. We all make mistakes and experience rough or even shameful situations, but that doesn’t mean we’re useless.
6. Eat Healthy Food
Eating healthy food does not mean you have to deprive yourself from the kinds of food you enjoy the most. There are always healthy alternatives to all things we love. Good food will promote a positive mood, healthy lifestyle and give you a boost of energy.
7. Sleep Well
Sufficient sleep is important for your health. It boosts your mood and makes you even happier. It also scatters under-eye circles, spurs creativity and improves your memory.
8. Make Time for Yourself
There’s no need to finish all your tasks in one day. Instead, take a break and rest. Have a daily hour with yourself and stick to it. I usually spend an hour dancing or practicing yoga which rests my mind and gives me extra energy and makes me even more productive.
What do do you think is more important in society-inner or outter beauty? Let us know in the comments!