Getting over a breakup can be tough and every girl needs ways to get back to fabulous after a breakup. Recently, I had to remove a toxic friend and lover out of my life. This was sure as hell not easy because I was so used to him being around me. I had suspected that he was having an affair. I mean all of the signs were there. If you're in the same boat, here are some ways to get back to fabulous after a breakup.
1 Remember Who You Were
This is the first step in recovering from any type of breakup. Remember who the hell you were in the beginning. Often times, we pick up another person’s habits or likes to share an interest. I had lost interest in things that I loved such as fashion, taking selfies, reading my favorite books and writing. We have so many interests and hobbies, but we often lose ourselves getting entangled in other people’s. Get back to what you love, even napping! If you love taking selfies, then, by all means, flick it up (I like to emphasize selfies because I had my validation on someone telling me how beautiful I was. I felt like I didn’t have to capture my own beauty anymore). This is one of the best ways to get back to fabulous after a breakup.
2 Get out & Get Dressed
Breaking up with my best friend and my boyfriend was hard. When hanging around certain individuals, you can develop their habits. They both were not big on fashion, so in turn, I started to let myself go. Put on your favorite lipstick, extensions, heels, dress anything that makes you feel like you can conquer the world.
3 Live Life
When going through any type of breakup or heartache, we can sometimes suppress our emotions. It is okay to laugh about it, cry, or even if you have to, take a rest day. The most important thing is to go out and live your life. I had to constantly remind myself there are a billion other people out in this world. I will meet another friend, there are plenty of other guys out there. I learned not to be too dependent on anyone but myself. It is a wonderful feeling when you break up with toxic people and negativity.