How to Make Selfies Look Better: 10 Simple Tweaks for Natural Selfies

By Holly • Feb 23, 2017 MD

You don't want to look awkward in the pictures you upload to social media. If you're wondering how to make selfies look better, there are a few simple adjustments you can make every time you pull out your phone. By refining your background, lighting, and posing techniques, taking natural selfies becomes effortless. Whether you're capturing everyday moments or upgrading your profile picture, here are 10 little tweaks to help your photos look relaxed, flattering, and completely authentic.

Selfie TechniqueKey BenefitBest Use Case
Natural LightingSoftens skin tone & minimizes shadowsOutdoor or window shots
High Angle PosingEmphasizes eyes & defines jawlineClose-up portraits
Burst/Shutter ModeCaptures spontaneous expressionsAction & candid photos


1. Stand under Natural Light

Woman standing under soft natural sunlight for a clear selfie As tempting as it is to stand in the bathroom and take photos in front of the mirror, harsh indoor lighting rarely flatters your face or figure. If you want your natural selfie to look radiant, head outside or step near a large window. Soft sunlight works wonders on your complexion, instantly warming your skin tone. Plus, when you're outdoors, you won't have to worry about unwanted bathroom details showing up in the background. Instead, you'll get a vibrant, natural backdrop that enhances the overall image.

  • Position yourself facing the light source rather than having your back to it.
  • Golden hour (just after sunrise or before sunset) offers the softest, most flattering glow.
  • Avoid harsh noon sunlight by standing in light shade.

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2. Put Your Hand on Your Face

Woman resting her hand gently near her face for a relaxed selfie pose Some of us have trouble holding a natural smile in photographs. If smiling feels forced or stiff no matter what you do, you don't have to force a full grin. Relaxing your lips slightly—sometimes called a soft lip gape—creates a modern, effortless look. Alternatively, gently placing your fingers near your jawline or cheek adds visual interest while framing your facial features naturally.

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3. Use a Prop

Woman wearing glasses holding a prop in a casual selfie If you feel awkward wondering what to do with your hands while posing, bringing a prop into the photo makes you appear far more relaxed. Holding a coffee cup, resting a favorite lipstick against your lips, or showing off fresh nail designs with a bottle of polish gives your hands a clear purpose. Interactive elements help eliminate posture stiffness instantly.

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4. Use Shutter to Take Multiple Pictures

Woman taking burst mode pictures with subtle pose adjustments Even professional models rarely get the perfect shot on their first attempt. Modern camera phones from brands like Apple feature burst modes and high-speed shutters designed to capture split-second expressions. By taking multiple pictures in quick succession, you significantly increase your chances of finding one where you look absolutely stunning.

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5. Don't Show Your Face

Mirror selfie focusing on outfit and style without showing face If you can't strike a facial pose that feels natural, you don't need to include your face in the photo at all. If you're trying to show off a new outfit or activewear set, taking a shot from the neck down puts the focus directly on your personal style while keeping your feed creative.

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6. Tilt Your Head and Don’t Look at Camera Straight on

Woman tilting her head slightly away from the camera lens Even though we're often told to stand up straight with shoulders back, rigid posture can make selfies look like identification badges. To achieve a natural look, relax your shoulders, tilt your head slightly, and look just off-center from the camera lens. Style guides from magazines like Vogue emphasize how angled poses create subtle shadows and dimension that highlight your cheekbones.

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7. Get in a Good Mood

Smiling woman in a bright happy mood taking a photo If you're feeling miserable or stressed, it can easily reflect in your expression on camera. But when you're in a great mood, your smiles are completely genuine and warm. Play your favorite song or think of something that makes you laugh right before snapping shots to bring out authentic energy in your photos.

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8. Accentuate Your Eyes by Taking a Selfie from a Higher Angle

Selfie taken from a slightly elevated angle emphasizing the eyes Accentuate your eyes by holding your camera at arm's length slightly above eye level. Tilting your head to the side while looking up toward the camera makes your eyes appear larger and brighter. For more beauty and styling inspiration, check out our beauty section.

  • Elevate the camera phone slightly above forehead level.
  • Tilt your chin down softly to frame your eyes.
  • Capture natural catchlights by facing toward your light source.

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9. Take a Candid Shot

Candid picture taken while laughing at an outdoor location Not everyone has a personal photographer, but having friends or family snap photos while you move naturally creates fantastic results. When visiting a favorite café or park, ask them to take continuous shots while you laugh or interact with your surroundings modeling your outfit of the day (OOTD).

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10. Stick out Your Tongue

Playful selfie sticking out tongue with a friend Show your fun, playful side by slightly sticking out your tongue and smiling. Posing with a friend adds extra spontaneity and makes for a fun, memorable picture on your feed.

If you follow these quick adjustments, your photos will instantly look more natural and relaxed. What other selfie tips do you swear by?

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  • Emily

    2016-02-26T04:35:40.892Z

    These are all really good tips
  • Shilpi

    2016-02-26T05:45:37.435Z

    Nice tips :)
  • JasmiN

    2016-02-26T06:57:47.071Z

    Good one...cheese :)
  • Maria

    2016-02-27T15:54:50.274Z

    Wanna try these tweaks. :)
  • Jude

    2022-09-21T16:46:49.133Z

    Yes of course
  • Jude

    2022-09-21T16:45:38.538Z

    Please l want my face to look lightly
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